its always darkest before the dawn

FLORENCE AND THE MACHINE---- i love love love love love them they have such good music, literally i could listen to them on repeat on my ipod forever!

so i read this poster on pinterest awhile ago that i was like WTF when i read it. I tried to find it but i swear its nearly impossible. But the jist of the poster was this guy telling other guys to NEVER marry or date girls who love to read because those girls have tons upon tons of fictional guys to compare you to. SO then that got me to thinking......

MY FUTURE HUBBY REQUIREMENTS---in no particular order
1. he should love me no  matter what even if i dont have a arm :) like Jane and Rochester in Jane Eyre
2. He should keep me on my toes and make it STEAMY  like Carlos Alex and Luis Fuentes in the Simone Elkeles books
3. he should want to fight (physically or metaphorically) for our relationship like GALE AND PEETA--the hunger games
4. He should hopefully want to pour out his heart to me on the beach like Avi does in How to Ruin your teenage life.
5. I would hope to think hed want to be will me literally till the end of time (sorta cheesy) LIKE EDWARD- i just had to include that :)
6. He would wait for me even if i wasnt ready like Daniel does for Luce 
7. He should pick me up when i cant do it myself like Nate does for Ruby in Lock and Key
8. he should stand by me no matter what shit i get myself into like Cabel does for Jamie in Wake Gone and Fade
9. He should love me even if eveyone else might disapprove like MR DARCY--me love mr darcy
10. He should love me even if i make him want to rip out his hair and max out his credit card like in Confessions of a Shopaholic
11. He should love me because of whats on the inside like wanda in the host by stephenie meyer
12. he should love me even in i dont fit in like in the last song
13. He should love me even if i do stupid things like Belly and Conrad in Its not summer without you
14. he should love we awkward bits and all like auden and eli in along for the ride
15. he should be soulful well he doesnt have to be but itd be nice like finn in megan meades guide to mcgowan boys
16. He should want to go on adventures with me like in nick and norahs infinite playlist

I COULD EVEN go into movies and say that....

i want to drive off with him on a lawnmower with music blasting

or make me feel special like the chick in sixteen candles.

so i guess that guy at the begining of the quote he was kinda right, or maybe i just have really high standards. Im not gonna lie though you see all these guys in these fictional books and their all smooth and savvy and gorgeous and they make the girl feel like the best thing in the world, but guys in HIGH SCHOOL PSHHHT, they dont even know to be nice! well thats false, but literally their idea of a date is dinner and a movie and thats great and all but its BORING i want to be wowed! is that so much to ask for. I feel more and more bitchy and high matenience as i write this post so im gonna stop now

thoughts? xxxooo katie